So: Matt just asked my dad and now the cat is well and truly out of the bag. Seems to have gone okay; lots of talk from the folks about 'trusting my judgment' and then we all simultaneously seemed to realize that there was no reason anyone should. The mothers are to speak.
I called GK4 former fiance very serious and told him.
"Yeah, I know." He said. "I read your blog, you moron."